The Best Investment You Will Ever Make
Going With In…
It’s a new year filled with possibilities. Are you excited? Are you excited about the unlimited potential that is realized when you invest in you by Going With In?
I’ve been doing a lot of Going With In lately. You know working on me to make me and my life more joyful. I have also been focusing on honoring what I find when I go with in. Here’s what I have learned so far.
Going With In seems easy and sounds like a piece of cake. But Going With In, really Going With In can be tough and sometimes scary. Going With In makes you think differently about everything you have been taught while living on this planet. Going With In requires you to work with yourself, to trust what you find and then honor your process by accepting and sorting what works for you. Going With In shows you the authentic, beautiful and sometimes upsetting version of you.
Ultimately this means the expert opinions and “shoulding” of others get dialed down to a whisper instead of screaming at you in your everyday self talk. Going With In also means you no longer have a need or reason to fit into anyone else’s version of you. Going With In teaches you to step out of life’s “should’s” and step into the authentic you.
And this is where the fear can take over because we have been trained to avoid this at all costs. Avoid Going With In the mind chatter screams. Avoid Going With In…because those around you will see it’s possible to live joyfully and authentically. Avoid Going With In… to find answers because you will put countless experts and industries out of business. Avoid Going With In…because you may get some joy juice on the rest of us and mess up our going with out.
Please understand I know how challenging it is to go with in and clear all the years of garbage collecting. My garbage collection included everything from brain tumors and hearing loss to countless relationships with energy suckers. It wasn’t until I realized it was more painful to live in garbage that came from with out than it was to simply Going With In. It wasn’t until I took a leap of faith and just went with in that I found and felt the joy and meaning of me. The meaning and purpose of why I choose to be here. When I went with in I stopped going with out. I stopped living in madness and started living the gladness. By going with in I began to see all that life had to offer me.
Going With In to clear the garbage can be challenging. There have been plenty of times that I have thrown my hands in the air and said, ” I quit!”. In fact I quit just the other day. I decided no more. No more digging deep, no more Going With In for me. Just tell me what to do and I will do it. I will go back to what the experts advise.
After a few days of this the mind chatter was out of control, I felt physically ill, and all my joy juice had left the building. It was at this moment that I realized something very profound. I realized that when I quit Going With In I have nothing to quit to. That when I give up on me everything stops. When I go with out I’m left with just that, with out. So I took a deep breath and started again. I started over on my journey of Going With In and reclaimed the joy that can only be felt and found in me.
Wishing you a blessed new year filled with meaningful and authentic journeys that take you with in.
Tracey R. Kern
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